It was a privilege to get to know Ricke over the last several years. He had many challenges in life but he was a loving person who would fold his hands and pray for others at the drop of a hat.
On a good day he would tease me. His impish eyes would light up even when he was frowning. He liked to say that my husband was bald headed, when in fact, both of them had about the same amount of hair. Then he would tell me that I'm old. It al ways amused me because Ricke was several years older than me, so I would tell him that he was old. If I took my shoes off, he'd hold his nose, and say "ew" and insist that my feet were "nakey."
I will miss his childlike banter and watching The Beach Boys together with him. The Beach Boys were one of his favorites and could sometimes get over a bad mood.
A few days before he passed, I had a dream that a childhood friend of mine (who has a brother who's very much like Ricke) took me to say goodbye to him, but when I walked into his room, Ricke spryly hopped out of bed and nimbly made his way past me to go into another room before I could tell him that I knew we wouldn't be seeing each other again.
I know he's just out of sight now. Sort of like he's just in another room. In my dream, he required NO assistance walking and was much younger. It was such a joy to see him that way!
No more tears or pain now for him. I'm grateful that he's with Jesus and his daddy! One day, we will meet again on the other side.